“I would love to give, but there are so many worthy
charities out there that I cannot decide.”
“The rich are able to afford to give to charity. I’m not rich.” “We
should take care of those in need in our own country before we give to other
countries.” All are common excuses (or
even reasons) for not giving up a little bit of what we have to help others who
need. Most of us feel badly for those
with less than us, and want to help, but cannot see their way to finding funds
within their budgets to reach out. Yet,
each of us in North America, regardless of our incomes, have the capacity to
“discover” methods by which we can assist those people who are less fortunate
than we may be. Yes, even the poorest of
us can do so, and definitely the wealthy can redirect money to others, if we
choose.
Recently, I visited Ocho Rios, Jamaica. My wife and I took none of the guided tours,
ate at none of the tourist attractions, bought nothing from cruise
ship-sponsored kiosks. Instead, we
walked two miles back through the town centre, beyond the acceptable tourist
spots, through the local farmers market, behind the preparation areas hidden
behind the pallets of local foods, among the local garden and “plantation”
areas, and into the residences bordering the market. From there, we were able to see the contrast
between the tarpaulin-roofed homes to the mansions of Mick Jagger and other
“rich and famous” homeowners. It was
overwhelming. But how could we, with
only a hundred dollars or so, make any difference? And what right did I have to act so
voyeuristically, peering into the desperate lives of these people as if they
were zoo animals on display?
This private dissection served a purpose: it made me think,
“how can I help?” I came up with several
solutions.
First, I write for a living.
That day, I began a new manuscript, calling on the images and
experiences that day in Jamaica. I will
be publishing it within the year, and every penny of revenues will be directed
to Ocho Rios. If I were to simply hand
over the cash to a relief agency, much of it might not make it into the hands
of those in need. I expect to earn only
a modest amount from this book. I know a
couple from Jamaica who will take the money I earn each year, proceed to the
farmers market, and discretely distribute money to several of the vendors. Every penny.
What difference will it make? For
a brief period, those families will benefit.
And there is one solution, for each of us who cruise or take vacations
in countries like Honduras, Belize, Jamaica, etc. Take half of the money that you had intended
to spend on souvenirs, tours and local treats for yourself, and give it away
discretely. Not willing to part with
fifty percent? How about 10%? Any amount will help immediately.
Currently, I am involved in setting up a charitable housing
project for low-income families in my home town. Habitat builds homes for those with need, as
well. These are worthwhile ventures. But, how about homes built for those with
means, wealth? As an illustration,
Family A plans on having a custom-built home constructed with a budget of
$400,000. Two choices ca be made here
that will generate a significant amount of charitable money. First, add 10% to the budget, to be donated
to the charitable cause fund base. Or, insist that the costs be reduced by 10%,
and donate that money to the cause. Now,
locate tradesmen that are willing to donate one week of their time, free, to
the construction of the home. Get them
to set the fee that they would charge, and that money gets donated to the
helping pot. Approach local lumberyards,
and insist that they donate 10% of their costs to the charity. Be sure that the finances are transparent, so
that everyone who has contributed can see that the money is going where it was
committed. No one is out of pocket. Everyone has done their duty to help
others. And you, the homeowner, has more
than a “green” home. You have a home with
a heart, of which you can be proud!
Donating time is one of the easiest ways to give to the
world around you, and is as valuable as any money tossed into the pot. Use your own unique skills to make a
difference.
How about our daily budgets?
Start by monitoring, for six months, your food budget, your
entertainment budget, your housing and
clothing budget. Now, commit to trimming
10% of any or all of those budgets, and donating the amount to a charity for
only two months of the year. It makes a
difference quickly, and the “leaning out” of your budgetary diet will improve
the health of your conscience.
How do we cut housing costs?
Many utilities and local governments offer tips on how to conserve
energy. Follow these guidelines, and
part with only half of your savings. Any
grants and rebates available can be similarly forwarded to charity, without
cost to you.
How about clothes? I
have a system of cycling my clothes to cut costs. My clothes start off as “going out on the
town” wear. As they age, they become
casual wear. Soon, they are work wear
for doing household chores. Finally,
they become rags, or are donated to thrift shops or recycling depots.
The food budget is the easiest in which to cut costs. One day a week, substitute high-quality foods
for lower-cost items. Make every second
alcoholic beverage a lower-cost item than you will normally drink (it may also
lead to drinking less. Wonderful, isn’t
it?). Make and buy meal items in bulk.
Typically, you save between 6-14% in this manner. There are dozens of other strategies. But don’t just cut costs and keep the
savings. Be generous to others.
Lastly, a simple change in attitude will help you find an
abundances of resources to share.
Instead of looking at giving as an option, and as a task, look at it as
an opportunity to play a more involved role in the world. Like your cup of coffee, embracing the world
is addictive. Unlike tobacco, it is
healthy and invigorating. It is not your
duty to help others. It is your
pleasure! Look differently, not at the
world, but at yourself, and how you see the world will change. Make a difference in yourself, so that you
can make a difference in the world.
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